What the first day of a new job really looks like

For those of you that equate a first day on a new job to jumping into the deep end of the pool before taking the swim test, you are not alone.  As much as you might think you are prepared for the transition and what a first day (or even first week for that matter) will look like, there are always surprises, twists and turns.  So what is the best way to handle the transition?

The advice I have for this particular blog topic is going to be simple.  We could have much more in-depth discussion about the idea, but to Keep It Simple Sam (K.I.S.S.) can help you avoid over-thinking anything as you work on making your first impressions with your new colleagues.

The first thought is to have no fear.  I was at a pool with my kids yesterday, and they had a high board that was about ten feet above the water.  I was absolutely amazed at the size of some of the children jumping off with reckless abandon.  As a parent it freaked me out a bit, but if they had been hesitant going off that high board it could have ended badly.  Instead they were all giggling and having a great time.  Why not enter into your first day with the idea that it is only going to be exciting and not terrifying?

The second idea is to be prepared.  To go off of this high board the kids had to pass a swim test.  Although you won't know all of the ins and outs of your new job and new co-workers, at least be ready on your first day with the appropriate paperwork, identification, dress attire, etc.  This may seem simple, but you would certainly feel awkward if your first meeting with HR you had to admit that you left your completed application by the back counter at home and promise to bring it in the second day.

Thirdly, know that there are people interested in your success.  At the pool there were no fewer than six lifeguards at any time near the slides and diving boards at the pool.  At your new employer there will be many parties that are invested in your success.  Know that you can count on them.  Ask them questions and pay attention to what they have to say.  They are there for a reason.

Lastly, have fun.  This may seem counter-intuitive for the workplace, but I am telling you that it works.  I'm not saying to fool around all day and not get work done.  Rather show up with a smile on your face, warmly interact with those around you, and be the first to extend a hand and introduce yourself to anyone and everyone.  It will quickly be learned that you are the "new kid on the block" and people are bound to respond favorably to that.

More than anything, remember that everyone you talk to on your first day at one time also had their first day at the company.  You're all in the same boat and may as well enjoy the ride!

Do you have any interesting stories of first day adventures?